No, it's not all you and your menopause, now is it? Your partner could be going through his own menopause, which could complicate your menopause process. Why?  Having an understanding, gentle, caring, calm partner can help calm you down, but a grumpy one can set you and your hot flashes off.  Why not try working together?

 

The decline in testosterone that comes with aging, depression and irritability reign. But hormones can be just one element in the mix that can turn your guy from a happy and healthy partner to a sour, irritable one.  This is a great opportunity of understanding and sharing with each other that which you might of otherwise missed.

 

Technically men can?t have menopause.  But testosterone drops in men after the age of forty is an analogous to the drop in estrogen that women experience. They many go on to suggest supplemental testosterone.  Now that is a surprise! Should we be the one to suggest it?

 

As your menopausal Goddess counter parts, we would love you to embrace the task of aging and allow the reality of dying.  Approach yourself, and of course me, with loving kindness during this major process that is unfolding.  You will only find through this process a greater peace, deeper satisfaction, and a more fundamental abundance then ever before.

 

After all misery loves company, and as we ponder our disturbances in our self-image triggered by weight gain, hair loss, wrinkles; memory problems; declined sexual urgency; emotional sensitivity and anxiety, even a possible hot flash or two, we would love the company through our journey of aging and menopause.

 

Let?s eat properly together as we figure out our next step into our unknown path together.  Just think of the possibilities. We can share each others grief over our lost youth together, cry at the movies, and crave for foods that will do nothing for us. I will show you how to handle your emotions, and give you assertiveness skills that will allow you to deal with irritating events as they happen. Not even to mention holding in anger, choking back tears, lunging for irritating sales clerks, kicking parking meters, and acquire new road rage skills in any given day.

 

So come with me in this journey of the unknown together.  We will understand this level of life as one.  Know that we are all together, as we are always all together.  My dear as you think of the possibilities and wonderment to our new found partnership, let?s hold onto each others thicken waists as we watch our sex life dwindles into the starry starry night.