Hi Kimmie
 A year and half after my divorce my x husband passed away. He left having my children thinking he hated me, and now they hate me also. Did he hate me that bad that he turned my children against me? Will I ever have my children in my life again or what can I do to convince them that they need me, their Mother in their life? Thanks....Cindy from B.G. Ohio

Cindy,
 
My heart goes out to you.  Remember, part of the reason for their anger comes from the loss of their father.  As time passes so will the anger diminish?  Just let them know you are there for them and that you love them unconditionally.  They will see the truth.  Remember, sometimes we are confused by anger, fear and loss and have a hard time seeing the truth.
You love them.  The only thing that matters is that they know you are there when they want to come back and they will.  I feel that they just need to think through things.  It is hard Cindy but those children are your children. They love you and need you.  Don't "Convince" them......it isn't a task.  Just BE, BE the mother who brought them into this world and gave them their first dose of unconditional love.  You are their mother and nothing will change that. Just be.  Love them and trust that love always brings us back to our own truth.
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